Still no sex...
It's been so long since my last post...and even longer since my last good fuck. I haven't had shit to write about, so instead of boring you whilst I lament over my sexless existence, I just haven't been posting at all.
I got rid of my fuck buddy, which kinda sucked since I am hornier than ever lately. I met a man online, but he lives so far away. :( I really like him, I even considered purchasing the equipment below until I can go see him.
http://www.highjoyproducts.com/detail.aspx?ID=3
Gives a whole new meaning to cybersex, eh?
Man, I need some kind of release badly. I have had the strangest and kinkiest sex fantasies recently. I just want to be dominated. And not in the whips-n-chains kind of way, just in the throw me up against the front door as soon as I come home from work and fuck me until I can't walk anymore kind of way. I'm so conservative in life...who could guess that I'd like the shit I do in the sack? I guess all the good girls are really freaks underneath. :P
I hope everyone has been getting laid at every possible opportunity. :)
Posted by Single Girlee at 2:25 AM
Sorry for the outburst!
Sorry for getting kinda riled up in yesterday's post. I am so stressed with work and people and now sexually frustrated cause I can't even have a fucking orgasm. Well, I hope you can all feel my pain and know that I wasn't just complaining to complain. :(
I have cut-off my sex buddy because I found out that he is also banging a chick that I work with, so I'm just not interested anymore. We never had an exclusive thing going, but I can't stand the chick and feel a little insulted that he put us both in the same category. She is so annoying and obnoxious. I mean to men, I'm pretty sure a pussy is a pussy...but for women, the man attached to the dick has to have some kind of personality before most women would sleep with him.
I did have a fantasy of he and his roommate double-teaming me though. Mmm...two men and one single girlie! Sounds delectable. ;) One day, I'll have exactly what I want!
Posted by Single Girlee at 10:47 PM
WTF!?!
Ok, people...I'm in near crisis mode.
I can't cum.
I have been having a problem reaching orgasm for about a week now and it is driving me INSANE. In the past, I have not had a problem having an orgasm, but these days it takes a LONG time for me to climax. :(
Ever since I bought The Rabbit (I've posted about it before) it has taken mere minutes to having me bucking and moaning like crazy. Now, it takes over 20 minutes for me to even be close. I don't know if my last post jinxed me or what, but I am so sexually frustrated I feel like humping anything and everything with a dick just to make sure that I'm not broken.
I usually don't use my blog as a place to complain (unless it's sexual) or post about the mundane details of my life, but this all started when I started experiencing a dull pain in my left breast. I think it might be stress-related. I've tried everything that usually gets me off...porn, shower head, crazy-hot fantasies and nothing is working.
I don't have a steady sex-life, so if I can't get myself off...that's a fucking problem. Have any of you women had a similar problem? I need some advice before I go crazy!
Posted by Single Girlee at 10:40 PM
Quest for the big O
I'm confused and need a little help figuring this out...
I was recently asked by one of my "friends" why I haven't had an orgasm with him yet. I told him that I wasn't sure what the reason was, but that I wasn't disappointed about it because I have never had an orgasm during intercourse before. My clit needs to be stimulated at the same time in order for me to cum. I have had PLENTY of orgasms in my life at the hands (or tongues) of someone else, so I'm not really concerned about it.
He proceeded to ask me if it was the size of his member that was the cause of the problem. I gave him an emphatic NO since I have slept with men with all different sizes, widths, etc. and none of them have made me cum from just intercourse.
Does this mean that something is wrong with me? I have talked with girlfriends before and they have reported mixed results. Some can cum from being fucked and some can't. I never really thought that anything was wrong, but after the conversation I had with him, I'm feeling a little self-conscious.
For me, an orgasm is probably 50% psychological. If I am with someone and they're hitting all the right places, but still not doing it for me, I have to think of something that turns me on in order to cum. Even when I'm masturbating, I need to have a good fantasy in mind or forget it. It's just not gonna happen.
Is this wrong? Shouldn't I just be able to lay back and enjoy what's happening to me without having to fantasize about something else?
Posted by Single Girlee at 9:07 PM
Story of SingleGirlee's First Blowjob
I was asked to blog about my first time sucking cock. It will be a short story and probably a little funny to most, but I don't mind sharing. One of my best friends in 9th grade was a guy. We hung out all the time and I thought he was the cutest thing I had ever seen. Of course, I wasn't his type and I was too shy to push the issue, so we stayed friends. We hung out all the time until one day.
We were play-fighting in his basement and his mom wasn't home from work yet. We were both virgins at this point, but very aware of the opposite sex. ;) Well, while we were play fighting, he started playing with my nipples through my shirt. I think we started to kiss and then he asked if I had ever given a blowjob before because he had never had one. He asked me if I would do it for him since we were such good friends. He said that things wouldn't "get weird" between us and it would just be our little secret. I agreed to try it since I was curious and secretly head over heels in love with him.
He pulled down his pants and boxers and I remember vividly how soft the skin was and how hard his cock was all at the same time. It was a very strange combination. I had never felt or seen a dick close up before this experience so it was all VERY new to me. I started by giving him a hand job (which in retrospect was horrible, but I didn't know any better) and then put just the head of his cock in my mouth. I remember gagging quite a bit because it was such a strange feeling to have something that big in my mouth going in and out so fast. From what I remember, he also held my hands down so I couldn't use them for part of the blowjob. It took awhile to get a rhythm going enough for him to cum. I didn't think about spitting for one second. I was a natural swallower, obviously. ;) I swallowed his load and the taste was a mix between sweet and salty. In comparison, it was some of the better tasting jiz of my cocksucking days. :)
Of course, that was the last time we ever hung out and he didn't talk to me after that. I heard that two days later, he lost his virginity to one of his neighbors and was sex-crazed after that. Those are just rumors since I was never able to ask him, but he was the first one to really break my heart cause I believed his line of bullshit and did what I thought would make him want to be with me as my boyfriend. So, what did I learn kiddies?
Well, I'll tell ya... - First and foremost, when a man's cock is hard, do not believe a fucking word of what he says. ;)
- Cocksucking is generally 60% skill and 40% enthusiasm.
- Using your hand is not cheating, but if you can do it without hand-help, it gives you brownie points more often than not. :)
- All men are different. Some like eye contact during a blowjob, some don't. Some like ball-play, some don't. Some like a finger up their ass, some don't. Communication is key. ;) If he doesn't tell you what he likes, how will you know?
- Most men love it when a woman swallows, but they also love a good face shot/tit shot now and then.
- Developing a rhythm is KEY. Do not switch the rhythm up if you want him to cum...well unless you're an evil bitch that's just delaying the orgasm. Sometimes it's kinda fun to fuck with 'em! :)
Posted by Single Girlee at 11:27 PM
Close Encounters of the Fourth Kind?
D contacted me tonight and wanted me to come over. As I was already in my PJs and didn't plan on going back out in the extreme cold, I turned him down. Then, I reconsidered. I wanted to suck his cock and have him fuck me. Then he told me he was still sick and sucking/kissing was out of the question unless I didn't care if I got his illness.
I got a quick shower and shave job and headed over. When I first got in, he pulled me close and started to kiss and suck on my neck. I pulled away since I didn't want another hickey. I wanted to kiss him, but I didn't want to get sick. He led me by the hand to his bedroom and started playing with my right nipple by rolling it around in his fingers. I had my back to him and could feel his cock getting hard against my ass. I reached up behind me and rubbed his neck while he played with my tits. He leaned in next to my ear and whispered, "You have such amazing tits." I giggled and thanked him and then he turned me around and pushed me back on his bed. After I took my shoes off, he laid beside me, licking and sucking my nipples while caressing my pussy through my pants. I was rubbing his cock through his pants and playing with his balls.
He pulled my pants off and began to play with my clit with his fingers. I closed my eyes and arched my back and then felt his tongue on my slit. He flicked at my clit with his tongue while sticking his fingers inside me. I was moaning loudly and grabbing handfuls of the blanket on his bed. I could reach his cock with my foot and I gently played with him through his pants. He moved his hand up and started pinching my tits while licking me and it was driving me crazy. He got up to take his pants off and put on a condom and I took over pinching and rubbing myself in the meantime.
Once he came back to the bed, he threw my legs up and thrusted into me. While he was fucking me he was moaning and saying things like, "Mmm baby you feel so good" and "I gotta slow down or I'm gonna cum too quick." I licked my hand and started playing with my clit. My legs were twitching and he began kissing the insides of my legs and licking my nipples. He slowed down and changed positions to me on my back and him on his side. That wasn't really working out very well so we changed it up again. We went through three or four vigorous cycles before he figured it was ok to cum. He got down close to me and said in a panic, "Uhhhh baby I'm gonna cum...I'm gonna cum! I'm gonna cum!!!!" I escalated my moaning and pulled him closer to me while he was pounding me. I could feel him go rigid and knew that he came.
He leaned down and kissed my nipples when he pulled out and squeezed my thighs before letting me get off the bed to dress myself. He said, "That was amazing." I shot back with, "It sure was!" We talked about the wedding that I'm in tomorrow. I know that doesn't sound unusual, but it is for us since normally I leave without uttering a word. I stood in his room and asked him if he would show me out and he said, "Nah, I don't think so. I think I'll keep you in here for round two." I said, "You're kidnapping me?" We walked to the front door and he made another comment about not unlocking the door so I'd have to stay and then thanked me for coming over. I told him no problem and then he said "Good Night Baby."
All in all, a very pleasurable evening was had by all!
Posted by Single Girlee at 10:40 PM
To Squirt or Not To Squirt...
While surfing porn last night, I came across the video below.
http://www.onlygonzo.net/4/efgieqen/onlygonzo.com-sample1.mpg
I think I want to learn how to harness that power! Sometimes during serious orgasms, I can feel liquid squirt out, but I didn't know that it was female ejaculation. It has happened when I was with a partner or during masturbation, and I was a little embarassed about it. I thought that maybe it was just a lot of regular cum or even a little urine if the G-spot was being stimulated, but now that I've done some research and paid attention, it is definitely ejaculate.
Ultimately, I don't think that I'd want to ejaculate as much volume as in the video clip above, but I must have watched that clip about 10 times because I was amazed that some women can squirt that much! From what I've read, some women can ejaculate up to 2 cups of liquid at a time!
If I was a man and could make a woman squirt, I'd think pretty damn highly of my bedroom skills! Apparently, men like it when their women squirt too based on the picture I included of the fake squirting pussy you can purchase from a sex toy place. :P
I guess it's true when they say "ya learn something new everyday!" PS - Thanks again to The Venting Housewife for helping me get a better looking layout! :)
Posted by Single Girlee at 11:51 PM
